Lucy's Story
Lucy was 6 years old when she was referred to Befriend a Child. Lucy’s mother passed away when she was very small and since she was 6 months old Lucy and her brother have lived with her grandmother.
It was felt that Lucy would benefit from having a befriender as her grandmother would often struggle to cope with her behaviour and, due to her age, was unable to stimulate her enthusiasm and curiosity in a constructive way. Furthermore, Lucy is a very friendly little girl and her grandmother worried that she had no concept of “stranger danger”. Lucy needed some 1:1 attention with a positive adult role model she could trust who could keep up with her bubbly personality and channel her energy in a productive way.
Lucy has been matched with a befriender for a year now and the relationship has been a huge success. Lucy’s befriender has opened the world up and offered experiences she otherwise would have missed out on such as horse riding, visits to the cinema and even the Pantomime at Christmas time. Lucy’s grandmother has been very grateful for the support and has noticed a visible difference and improvement in her granddaughter’s behaviour including her attitude towards strangers, something which her befriender has been working on. Lucy is more engaged with the world around her and thanks to her befriender the future is looking bright.
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